Appropriate clothing for a funeral

For a funeral, you’ll want to look well presented and show respect. The right outfit helps you dress appropriately for the occasion, without having to overthink it. At Suitable you’ll find stylish menswear for a funeral, such as smart shirts, dark trousers, blazers and understated accessories. This makes it easy to put together a restrained look that suits the moment.

Etiquette: understated and respectful

Unless the next of kin have explicitly requested a specific dress code or colour, the general rule for funeral attire is: understated, and above all respectful. This means avoiding bright colours, busy prints and overly casual clothing (such as shorts or printed T-shirts).

• Colour choice: dark, neutral shades are always the right option. Think black, charcoal, dark grey or deep navy.
• The foundation: a classic dark suit is the most traditional and safest choice. Pair it with a plain, light-coloured shirt (white or light blue) for a calm, considered look.

Have more questions about funeral etiquette? Read more in our dedicated blog.

A suitable alternative to a suit

Don’t like wearing a full suit, or is the funeral less formal in tone? Then opt for a smart, understated combination. A dark pair of trousers or a finely woven chino in black or dark grey makes a solid base. Combine it with a smart shirt and, if you like, a neat, plain pullover or a well-cut blazer. Most importantly, your outfit should convey calm and respect.

The right details and finishing touches

For a burial or cremation, the right tone is in the details. Keep accessories as subtle as possible:

• Choose smart, clean men's shoes, such as leather or suede monk straps or lace-ups in black or dark navy. Make sure they’re polished.
• A tie isn’t always required, but it is a respectful choice. Go for a plain, dark tie without bold patterns.
• Is the memorial or funeral taking place outdoors? Then make sure you have a smart, longer overcoat or coat in a dark colour that matches the formal nature of the day.

Our support in difficult times

We understand that your mind is on other things during this period. Would you like personal advice or are you unsure about the right combinations? Our style advisers are here to help you calmly find an appropriate outfit.